When we first started homeschooling, I thought finding the perfect curriculum was just a matter of research and prayer.
But here’s what I’ve learned: sometimes what looks great on paper doesn’t always work in real life—especially when you’re teaching a child with dyslexia.
This past year has been full of trial and error, learning and pivoting, and plenty of grace.
And while many people recommended Orton-Gillingham based curriculums, which are often seen as the gold standard for dyslexic learners… they just didn’t work for us.
We tried multiple programs. We stayed consistent. We adjusted. But it still felt like pulling teeth. My daughter was frustrated, and so was I. And I knew something had to shift.
When “Proven” Doesn’t Mean “Personalized”
The truth is—just because something is highly recommended doesn’t mean it’s the right fit for your unique child.
And after trying several OG-based curriculums, I had to release the pressure I was putting on myself and really focus on what would support her learning style best.
We started looking for something more colorful, more engaging, and something that didn’t put all the teaching weight on me—because let’s be honest, this mama is pregnant, preparing to welcome a new baby in September, and knows this year will require more support.
What We’re Using Now: BJU Press
We’ve decided to use BJU Press this year—and it’s already been a huge relief.
✔️ The video-based lessons take a lot of pressure off of me
✔️ The colorful, structured workbooks hold her attention better
✔️ The biblical integration aligns beautifully with our values
✔️ And the format gives her the visual reinforcement and variety she needs to feel successful
It’s not perfect—but we’ve seen more joy and more confidence in our homeschool days since making the switch. And that’s something worth celebrating.
What I’ve Learned (Again and Again):
- It’s okay to pivot.
Even mid-year. Even multiple times. - You know your child best.
Experts, blogs, and reviews can guide you, but you’re the one who sees her face light up (or shut down) when learning clicks or doesn’t. - Simplifying doesn’t mean you’re failing.
It means you’re making wise choices for your season—and this next season for us includes a newborn, so yes to more support!
Encouragement for the Mama in the Middle of It
If you’re still figuring it out—please know, you’re not behind.
You’re not failing.
You’re simply on a journey that requires more flexibility, prayer, and creativity.
And it’s okay to choose a curriculum that supports you too—not just your child. Because when you’re burned out, overwhelmed, or stretched thin—it’s hard to show up well for anyone.
This season is sacred, and God will meet you in it.
📖 “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” – James 1:5 (ESV)
So mama, pivot if you need to.
Choose tools that help your family thrive, not just survive.
And know that God is leading you—and your child—step by step.
You’ve got this. And I’m cheering for you.
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